disagreements

I love people but i have been known to disagree on occasion. I’ve noticed when
I have an upset with someone , I will dream about them that night. Have you ever gone
to bed mad at someone only to find you’re not mad with them in the morning? Many
years ago, an energy healer told me, “The souls resolve their differences while
they sleep.” I always liked this notion that our differences with others could
be worked out in the spiritual realm while we slept.

What issues are you resolving in your nightly dreams or waking dreams?

Wind-Dancer wrote:I love people but i have been known to disagree on occasion. I’ve noticed when
I have an upset with someone , I will dream about them that night. Have you ever gone
to bed mad at someone only to find you’re not mad with them in the morning? Many
years ago, an energy healer told me, “The souls resolve their differences while
they sleep.” I always liked this notion that our differences with others could
be worked out in the spiritual realm while we slept.

What issues are you resolving in your nightly dreams or waking dreams?

I believe some people do just that. Maybe that is where the saying comes from "why don’t you sleep on it”. I found also not being upset anymore in the morning, it just all goes away like it never even happened. The only time I remember it if the same action is repeated and there comes my sleep again and everything is ok again. Some people I know hold grudges for many years and sometimes decades so this does not work for everyone.

If i go to sleep mad i most always wake up and seem to forget about being mad, i do try very hard not to get angry it is a process i like to call working on myself. What luda said about people holding grudges was right on these people who do this hold onto this negative emotion as if it was apart of them. Forgiveness is key.

something i found on the web that i would like to share about forgiveness.

But if each one of us does not practice forgiveness, you may be the one who pays most dearly.

By embracing forgiveness, you embrace peace, hope, gratitude and joy.

“Anger makes you smaller, while forgiveness forces you to grow beyond what you were.” -Cherie Carter-Scott

Forgiveness is choosing to love. It is the first skill of self-giving love.

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/forgiveness/MH00131

http://www.abundance-and-happiness.com/forgiveness-quotes.html

http://www.wisdomquotes.com/cat_forgiveness.html

Many Blessings